I didn’t know the imagine phrase means it’s stupid. I thought it’s just judgment (e. g. imagine killing people). And I didn’t even say it very seriously. I already explained the reason. If you care to actually be fair, read that
In this case I understand why people would respond negatively but imo rudeness and general toxicity is not justified. These things are always bad. Well maybe except the cases when the other side acts the same way or is just evil and you use toxicity as a form of terminating the person’s ability to hurt others. Though if what I said really was extremely rude, probably it’s fair idk
I haven’t been rude to you. Or at least I don’t think I have been.
I explained everything as clearly as I could.
Remember with communication, it’s not your intent it’s the perception that’s important. And yes your initial phrase came off as hostile and condescending
I didn’t know the imagine phrase means it’s stupid. I thought it’s just judgment (e. g. imagine killing people). And I didn’t even say it very seriously. I already explained the reason. If you care to actually be fair, read that
In this case I understand why people would respond negatively but imo rudeness and general toxicity is not justified. These things are always bad. Well maybe except the cases when the other side acts the same way or is just evil and you use toxicity as a form of terminating the person’s ability to hurt others. Though if what I said really was extremely rude, probably it’s fair idk
I haven’t been rude to you. Or at least I don’t think I have been.
I explained everything as clearly as I could.
Remember with communication, it’s not your intent it’s the perception that’s important. And yes your initial phrase came off as hostile and condescending