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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Yeah, I absolutely believe there’s good feminist porn. But ggw feels exploitative in a way that modern internet gw communities feel the opposite of. It’s a company going to where young women are being a bit wild, often shitfaced drunk or high, and encouraging them to flash the camera. It also feels like it has a peer pressure element to it. Modern gw communities are also women showing skin for fun, but nobody is encouraging it for their own profit and you go to it instead of it going to where you’re having young adult revelry.

    Like, I’m a slut in my 30s. I even enjoy casual stuff and showing off my body. But girls gone wild pings my “hey, this isn’t just safe slutty fun” senses, it feels more like someone getting out a camera when they see you’re freeing the nipple in a nonsexual way.











  • Microphone work and the rest of public speaking can be different skills, especially if you learn public speaking in a way that doesn’t involve a mic. Speaking wants you to keep your head scanning the crowd with your body centered when standing still. If your hands are free it’s good to use them for emphasis, and you’ll want to rest them when not. Standing still in front of a mic feels awkward. This results in decent mic work making you look and feel a bit like a stand up comic. At least that’s my experience with it from doing stand up. Mic work was definitely not the hardest part, but it was a constant balance when learning to keep speaking into the mic without coming off wooden or awkward. It’s also just awkward to hold something in front of your mouth while speaking.




  • Exit to Eden. Terrible rotten tomatoes score, but it’s awesome and loved by the bdsm community. It’s a 1990s film adaptation of the Anne Rice novella of the same name, which is more or less just classic her style erotica, this one of a man going to a femdom island retreat and falling in love with and impressing the head lady there. Cliche whatever, but pretty good representation of kink despite the outlandish setting. But some executives or someone involved in the movie had a brilliant idea: buddy cop b plot with Rosie O’Donnell. This takes it from a bold and interesting decision that would probably be well regarded by a small group of people, to a movie that’s just kinda fucking nuts in a fun way. The b plot keeps the movie silly and light.

    So yeah, if this sounds up your alley I highly recommend it.