Sorry if this topic is stupid, I feel very stupid right now. I got transferred to a new department and I’ve had 2 or 3 clashes with the new boss about me not getting the hint. He finally gave me a metric, a number to get to. He spelled it out. I can do that, but I’m just freaking out that he’s gonna fire me because I couldn’t get the clue until today.

  • @Donut@leminal.space
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    152 months ago

    Why are you fretting because your boss sucks at communication? Establish your expectations and communicate these. They should be able to give you direct goals when necessary.

    • @GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.eeOP
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      102 months ago

      Because I’ve been berated for decades about how I’m stupid for not getting the point, training me to think it’s my fault. Anxiety isn’t rational.

      • @Donut@leminal.space
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        82 months ago

        I understand. You’re right that anxiety (or any emotion) isn’t rational, but try to remind yourself that communication is a two way street.

        They obviously hold a position of power considering they are your boss, but it would be good to discuss expectations and boundaries to prevent miscommunication in the future!