This isn’t the behaviour of a caring partner. I’m really sorry to say it but it sounds like this guy’s heart isn’t in it. He’s not even managing to do the bare minimum let alone make you a priority and I don’t think he’s even worth the trouble of talking to about it.
You deserve better.
You could have someone that genuinely thinks of you and returns gestures of affection without being wrangled. You could have someone who actually wants to act like you’re together.
This isn’t the behaviour of a caring partner. I’m really sorry to say it but it sounds like this guy’s heart isn’t in it. He’s not even managing to do the bare minimum let alone make you a priority and I don’t think he’s even worth the trouble of talking to about it.
You deserve better.
You could have someone that genuinely thinks of you and returns gestures of affection without being wrangled. You could have someone who actually wants to act like you’re together.