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    1 month ago

    Any major instance should’ve defederated from this shithole a long time ago, together with hexbear and blahaj. Those instances are more of a toxic cesspool than the average league of legends lobby.

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        1 month ago

        Am I ootl on something with blahaj? It’s been a fine instance imo

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          1 month ago

          Its fine its just not how I want an instance I’m on to be moderated. Little too trigger happy on bans. I understand why its just not how I enjoy the threadiverse. Not anywhere near the same issues that come from the propaganda instances though.

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        1 month ago

        They absolutely are imo. I think I had way more unpleasant experiences with those freaks than I had with hexbear and .ml combined.

        There is an austrian pastry called “Punschkrapfen”. That is a great analogy for blahaj. Pink on the outside, brown on the inside.

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        1 month ago

        If you’re trying to imply that I’m hating trans people, nah - I generally support individuals doing what they want as long as they won’t harm someone. I just think the people on there are amongst the most aggressive and awful people I’ve met on lemmy/piefed so far that will try to ruin your life over minor disagreements, which is why I’m mostly ignoring the people from that instance.

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            1 month ago

            Comparing people living in a war scenario to trans people might be the most unhinged thing I’ve heard today tbh.

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      blahaj isnt really the same as a tankie. they just want to protect trans people from transphobic people. tankies are extreme political beliefs, as is conservatism.

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        1 month ago

        Two minorities of people who make it their mission in life to be offended by the majority.

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      Well the PF instances don’t really have an excuse, though iirc the flagship PF does defed (or maybe it was a default block?) from the entire Triad

      But it has come up that some major instances have a big concern in that if they defed from .ml dessalines will pull back support from them in retaliation

      Which is always a fantastic healthy green flag of a relationship/s

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        But it has come up that some major instances have a big concern in that if they defed from .ml dessalines will pull back support from them in retaliation

        Any evidence of this? https://infosec.pub/instances defederates from Lemmy.ml and is doing just fine

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          I don’t really consider infosec.pub to be a “major” instance, it’s only at ~300 MAUs iirc, by “major” I’m thinking .world or SJW or blahaj

          In any case, I’m almost positive I’ve seen it mentioned publicly in one of those big threads, maybe the donation ones a few months back. It was also told to me point blank by an admin of one of said major instances in a DM, but I am unsure how or even if I can release that considering it was told to me in private

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              So there are a few possible reasons I can see with this

              1. The fear is truly unfounded
              2. The fear is founded, but .cafe being so small, he doesn’t care to lend a hand and can use it for examples should this fear conversation become more serious. Dessalines is a lot of things, but he’s not dumb
              3. The fear is founded, but because it’s an issue that could potentially affect any instance large or small they decided to deal with it. Vs say if .world decided to defederate and then ran into an issue that mostly just affected them because of their size, maybe they’ll “give the run around” instead or ignore the issue until it affects an instance they care about
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                So it doesn’t change anything in any of the 3 scenarios, until the last one, and even then there’s still no documented evidence of the Lemmy devs not helping ever happening?

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              1 month ago

              What truly matters is that major instances have this fear to begin with, not whether or not it will happen.

              • Blaze@lazysoci.alBanned from community
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                1 month ago

                Then why don’t those admins switch to Piefed if that’s a fear? It’s been around for a while now, and it works as well as Lemmy.

                While we are talking, why haven’t you switched to a Piefed account yourself?

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                  Probably because it’s not easy to transfer entire instances? I don’t know dude.

                  I don’t care to switch. Lemmy is dead

                  • Blaze@lazysoci.alBanned from community
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                    14 days ago

                    I’ve moved plenty of communities to PieFed instances. It gives Piefed more visibility, and can help people know about it. Same reason I use Piefed for my main account.

                    You do you, but criticizing the Lemmy devs while keeping your Lemmy account and your communities on Lemmy seems contradictory

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                  22 days ago

                  While we are talking, why haven’t you switched to a Piefed account yourself?

                  He wants use their products while saying they evil. He’s too lazy to move, just only enough time to use old out of context screenshots to laugh at lonely people.

          • Blaze@lazysoci.alBanned from community
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            1 month ago

            If such comment was made it would have probably created a lot of dedicated posts

            If an admin of any instance got threatened that way they should probably release the evidence as this would probably encourage people to move to Piefed.

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              Sorry if I phrased it weirdly, I didn’t mean to imply that threats had been made (which I mean, dessalines is smarter than that, because like you said it would blow the Lemmy-verse up if he actually made a threat), but rather it’s a fear that’s out there.

              But like I said, I have confirmation of that fear in a DM from a major instance admin. Whether or not that fear is founded and justified or not, is up for debate. But it exists and it’s a factor in the decision making process

              • Blaze@lazysoci.alBanned from community
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                Then why doesn’t that admin switch their instance to Piefed? It’s been stable for a while now

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          I think by “pulling support” he means that they will no longer support the instance if there are bugs or problems occurring. If you’re technically savvy enough, you can probably get by without their support.

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            1 month ago

            The Threadiverse Admin group has all the admins of the biggest instances , that’s probably more than enough to troubleshoot any issue

            Also if you’re experiencing a but in the software itself, there are high chances that it’s there for everyone, so Lemmy devs will probably want to know about it