I’ve been saying partner for at least five years. I’ll casually drop her gender once in a while to remove any mystery for people who don’t know me very well who might be curious. It really doesn’t matter, but I do it just so they don’t wonder about it because I remember when that mattered to me when I was younger and stupider.
But a big part of it is also that we’re semi old and calling her my gf sounds kinda silly. We’re adults and we’re middle-aged. I might just start calling her my spouse, who knows.
But you’re free to assume I suck dick. Doesn’t bother me if you think that. Plenty of my friends suck dick on all sides of gender.
I’ve used partner for years partly because we’ve been common law for like near a decade now and even if we were officially married, it’s still a partnership. I’ve never had an issue personally.
I’ve been saying partner for at least five years. I’ll casually drop her gender once in a while to remove any mystery for people who don’t know me very well who might be curious. It really doesn’t matter, but I do it just so they don’t wonder about it because I remember when that mattered to me when I was younger and stupider.
But a big part of it is also that we’re semi old and calling her my gf sounds kinda silly. We’re adults and we’re middle-aged. I might just start calling her my spouse, who knows.
But you’re free to assume I suck dick. Doesn’t bother me if you think that. Plenty of my friends suck dick on all sides of gender.
I either say, “my wiiiife” in a borat tone, or “partner”.
Also wtf is wrong with partner? People get weirdly bent. We decide life shit together and do life shit together. Sounds partnery to me.
I’ve used partner for years partly because we’ve been common law for like near a decade now and even if we were officially married, it’s still a partnership. I’ve never had an issue personally.