Ask Me Anything@lemmy.caEnglish · 6 days ago

Architect based in London, getting married, AMA

Ask Me Anything@lemmy.caEnglish · 6 days ago

Hey everyone! I’m a 26-year-old architect based in London, and I’m about to get married to my best friend of 20 years. Yep, she’s been in my life since we were kids, and now we’re tying the knot next year.

I work in sustainable architecture (think green buildings, smart cities, all that eco-friendly good stuff). But today, I’m more interested in chatting about the stuff behind the work: life, love, and how to make it all work—especially when you’re balancing an intense career with a wedding that’s somehow both exciting and terrifying.

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Haha, well, I’d say anything where she’s in control. There’s just something about her being on top. It’s definitely a favorite. But honestly, I think it’s more about the chemistry than the position.

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