• canihasaccount@lemmy.world
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        No need to apologize. Everyone has their own strengths. I’m fortunate in that I’m the stereotypical, “great with math,” type. I’m in the sciences, and lack of social awareness isn’t as harshly judged in the sciences as it is in most other domains.

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      I always wondered why some would choose to identity as Autistic. They seem fine on the outside and don’t give off Autistic vibes when around others. I suppose it is more about being true to yourself.

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    12 hours ago

    Fondly referred to as “peer review.”

    I’ve had strangers clock me in five seconds and neurotypical family members question my diagnosis. This tracks

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    12 hours ago

    very relatable. especially after my “neurotypical” friends started getting diagnoses. there’s nothing quite as simultaneously affirming and alienating as realizing all your friends are ALSO autismos!

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      3 hours ago

      Autistic people naturally come together. I suppose it is due to human nature and the desire to be around people like us.

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    6 hours ago

    My personal opinion is that you shouldn’t go around telling people you are Autistic. More often than not it is effectively an excuse. It doesn’t help you fit in more and it can end up being an excuse to be lazy. Drop your mask if you want but don’t tell people it is because you are Autistic.

    This is just my personal belief. You are welcome to disagree.