Foreplay is never optional, and cunnilingus is mandatory.

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  • One doesn’t “Have that disorder” without first having “a diagnosis for that disorder”.

    One does not have the ability to reliably diagnose themselves with anything, even if they are an expert in their field. They also cannot diagnose people they are close to. Humans have notoriously bad confirmation bias, which is why we require third party confirmations for things.

    While you may experience what you believe to be “Hypersexuality”, what you are experiencing could be caused by a myriad of other things. Your claim that you have something, that is also not reliably studied or diagnosed, without any expert involved is dangerous at best. You may attempt to self treat in ways that are harmful because you have something that isn’t what you think it is; Others may see your claims and experience similar things, going down the same path of believing they “have the thing”, and hurting themselves with treatments that aren’t meant for them; Or getting involved in predatory communities.

    Yes, the medical system leaves much to be desired. That does not mean it is right, or safe, to take matters into your own hands and act like you are capable of doing things people with decades of experience cannot do.

    I hope you get the help you need, but it is irresponsible to claim that you have a disorder you do not know you have while acting as an authority on the disorder.









  • Generally speaking if one finds sex boring with their partner, it is likely the partner feels the same way.

    Talk to her about what you want in bed, about what she wants in bed, and if it is possible for you to be compatible in those ways.

    The thing about the human experience is it is usually “Normal” as in you aren’t ever the only person thinking/feeling a certain way. The best solution is always communication, just as a general life tip as well as an NSFW tip.