

I have shared that frustration, trying to find that balance.
I try to get some basic wisdom through to them to help prevent something horrible happening later, but I don’t want to cause them pain now, either.
I have taken to asking them to take my hand in theirs, when I think they aren’t listening.
The younger kid appreciates the connection. The older kid practices their active listening skills to make me leave them alone sooner.



















Great write up!
Of course, I never stopped editing my code in
viso I missed some of the editor frustrations.