catter [comrade/them, she/her]
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•Our Final Victory In The War On Christmas Draws Ever Nearer! - Trans Megathread from December 22nd, 2025 to December 28th, 2025English
9·2 days agoHad the inverse of this but with my medication recently
It is weirdly affirming to realize you’re making positive decisions I guess haha
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
7·4 days ago
It’s very hard, but at least we’re not alone in it
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
8·4 days agoIt’s worth checking! I’m still working through the leap to acceptance, a long way off from surgery. But I think a paper trail could only be helpful for that sort of thing.
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chat@hexbear.net•Why is buying a laptop so confusing and annoyingEnglish
2·4 days agoWow! I had never heard of this. Bookmarked for when I’m feeling up for pulling apart a laptop again. Thank you so much!
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
16·4 days agomental health
Asked my therapist if there’s a way for me to pursue a gender dysphoria diagnosis (I just needed some affirmation). “Oh, that’s been in your file for almost two years now.”

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chat@hexbear.net•Why is buying a laptop so confusing and annoyingEnglish
8·4 days agoThis is what I did and it worked out great. The only extra thing to be aware of is there’s a possibility the BIOS may be locked. I can’t disable secure boot on mine because of this, which limits my options for Linux distro. Thankfully Mint does everything I want 😄
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
11·5 days agoI’ve also been playing Celeste again. My fingers hurt lol
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
13·5 days agoGetting a basic eyeshadow routine down 😄 Feeling good about my progress. I’m so thankful there are a million tutorials on youtube.
Got my dress out of the back of my closet. Wearing it feels natural :)
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
8·6 days agoI feel like studs is the way to go while it heals! I got hoops when I got mine pierced, and they were a lot more trouble than they were worth. You never realize how much you bump your ear until you get a piercing haha. I hope you love them and best of luck with healing 🥰
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
10·6 days agoHoops or studs? 😄
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
9·6 days agoThis rules and I am happy for you :)
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
11·7 days agoThank you all for the well wishes. I made it :)
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
20·7 days agoI have couples counseling today and I am terrified I will out myself before I’m ready. Wish me luck 💜
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
6·8 days agoI love it 🥰 I am hoping to get more piercings soon
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
13·8 days agoOn the plus side, got gender euphoria from having feminine earrings and being told they suit me :]
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traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net•RMS Titanic — Trans Megathread from December 15th, 2025 to December 21st, 2025English
15·8 days agoGetting destroyed at work and missed my trans support group for the second week in a row 😮💨 I don’t know how people enjoy this time of year. I love people and want to have a good time, but there’s too much stuff going on for me
Used to be apathetic to Thanksgiving and Christmas, now I actively dislike it :christmas-cool: Between being vegan in a carnist family and the weird ways my in-laws gender activities, I’m at my wit’s end. No shade to people who like it, it’s just overstimulating to me anymore.
Thinking I will come out in the new year, so I may not have to worry about family activities anymore 🫥