I’m not on here often enough to be in the loop, what’s the 196 community drama?

And being homophobic is even more acceptable by a large part of the society.

The personal life section of his Wikipedia page lists more than a few examples of conservative Christian themed bigotry.

You don’t owe your coming out to anyone! It’s a personal choice and if you want to just let people figure it out on their own, well that’s more than okay. I actively came out to family and friends I’m close with, but I’m sure plenty of people wondered who this new Facebook friend was and sorted it out on their own from there. Or my mom called them to announce the news like I just got engaged or had a baby.