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  • but it might be helpful if rather than just alluding to some comment that got deleted, you posted what the actual content was.

    I can’t recall the exact wording of my comment, but the gist of it was that three celebrities were protesting an attempt to bar Israel from a music contest because of the ongoing genocide. I pointed out that the three celebrities were Jewish, so it was kind of cynical for them to do that. Those who upvoted understood what I meant, but then someone else accused me of antisemitism – because I didn’t specifically identify them as “Zionist”.

    How am I supposed to know whether they’re Zionist? As far as I know, they’ve never publicly identified themselves as such, and it could be perceived as offensive if I did.

    I notice you didnt mention being banned.

    No, I wasn’t. Hopefully you’ve read the two items I had posted before, which pretty much validated how I felt about what I’d experienced, and why I left.

    Listen, if you like Hexbear, fine; that’s your business. I don’t.

    most .world threads, which end up being incredibly hostile, childish, and ignorant

    Agreed, and that’s why I also avoid them (and Beehaw, Hexbear and .ml).


  • because its rude as hell to go into someones safe space and start acting like you know better or being dismissive of their beliefs. Especially when you dont actually want a well reasoned answer, you just want to stir shit.

    You’re running on a lot of assumptions.

    I made a comment that had nothing to do with any of that. It received quite a few upvotes (10+), then someone misread it and accused me of antisemitic dog whistling, which was not the case. In other words, they were stirring up shit and making a bad-faith argument.

    So I clarified my position, then other users piled on, the mod(s) deleted my comments, and I left.

    And the user who made that accusation had made what could be perceived as an anti-Italian remark in a comment a few days before. My paternal grandparents were Italian. Needless to say, I was a bit upset that this person didn’t follow the very strict standards that they held me to.

    (By the way, Blahaj is also an LGBTQ+ safe space. The difference is, they’re not assholes.)

    Feel free to check my post history.

    In the meantime, I’ll leave you with some recommended reading, here and here.