I’m very open and gregarious and I love chatting and talking to people!

I just don’t think others want to chat with me as much. I get bummed out on occasions when I go out alone and no one seemingly wants to, or does, talk to me. I usually blame it on US culture and racism because I do very well socially outside of the US, including Europe. But not even my best friends really text me as much as I text them or try to initiate discussion as often as I do. I try not to take it personally but it sucks, I’m just trying to have a good time. Partly why I try to find very extroverted partners who will be chatty with me and with others when we go out, which is great because she could pull more couples and groups. Although, I do have good security culture so I’ll be more reserved and cautious in spaces like these where I’m trying not to get doxxed. Even then I probably say too much.

Otherwise, I wish people were as chatty and outgoing, but also not shitty, I think that way life would be a lot more fun.