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  • Keld [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    10 天前

    I get it. I will say thought that just going to a social event and hovering is still a step up from not going.

    Going up to someone feels like a bad idea, introducing myself feels like a violation of their boundaries.

    I totally feel the same, and I know you’ve also heard the counter of “It’s obviously not. You wouldn’t feel it was a violation of your boundaries if someone in a social setting said hi to you, so why would they”. We just gotta work at it until it feels less wrong.