It’s not like you need to be erect to give a blowjob.
If you trust him (if you don’t, why are you gonna have sex with him?), Be honest that you’re nervous, and talk scenarios so hopefully they seem less scary. E.g. agree in advance that the goal isn’t necessarily to make him cum. Then I’d consider trying on e.g. a banana first to get acquainted with having a long thing in your mouth. Consider watching/reading some guides, or ask an LLM for advice, e.g. how to talk to him about this to get less anxious. What are you anxious about, if I may ask?
I guess the taste of cum. But I am going to take your advice and tell him I will give it a try, but if his precum freaks me out I will finish him outside my mouth just using my hand
Sounds reasonable. Just agree with him that you don’t swallow the first time, and that he should let you know when he’s about to finish
Precum is salty and quite good. Cum is… between without taste and disgusting.
Remember all the sensation is on the head of the penis.
So you don’t have to maintain constant suction to make a blow job feel realy good. Using your tongue on the head will do a lot.
Do I also have to keep pulling up and down on the shaft or will head stimulation be enough?
You do not. Just run your tongue around that head like you are trying to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop and your guy will be loving it.
Your only challenge will be to make sure no teeth make contact. Though as you get more experienced and creative you can use teeth as well.
Probably alcohol. But that’s just the first thing I can think of and not good advice at all. It’s questionable how alcohol and sex mix.
Edit: To not just write a silly thing… I think such an act is generally appreciated by your partner. So you’re automatically off in a positive way. And people like different things, so you’ll need to learn that nonetheless and you maybe don’t know everything in advance. Maybe just go with it? Sex isn’t supposed to be a performance act and you can adapt and look at your partner while at it. Make sure everyone is comfortable with doing it and some form of communication is going to help. I mean most of the times you should be able to tell whether someone likes something, once you started.
Less questions, more booze and sex!
Appreciate your advice. Just started laughing thinking about my talking to him while his cock is in my mouth
Hehe. I had that picture in my head as well. Though the communication is kind of the other way around here… And “communicate” is always easier said than done. I’m aware of that… I wish you the best. 😁 You do you, and try to have some fun yourself.
