Mickey7@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agoIs there anything that you think would help me overcome my performance anxiety of giving my first blow job?NSFWmessage-squaremessage-square12linkfedilinkarrow-up113arrow-down12
arrow-up111arrow-down1message-squareIs there anything that you think would help me overcome my performance anxiety of giving my first blow job?NSFWMickey7@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square12linkfedilink
minus-squareIWW4@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·1 month agoRemember all the sensation is on the head of the penis. So you don’t have to maintain constant suction to make a blow job feel realy good. Using your tongue on the head will do a lot.
minus-squareMickey7@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 month agoDo I also have to keep pulling up and down on the shaft or will head stimulation be enough?
minus-squareIWW4@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·edit-21 month agoYou do not. Just run your tongue around that head like you are trying to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop and your guy will be loving it. Your only challenge will be to make sure no teeth make contact. Though as you get more experienced and creative you can use teeth as well.
Remember all the sensation is on the head of the penis.
So you don’t have to maintain constant suction to make a blow job feel realy good. Using your tongue on the head will do a lot.
Do I also have to keep pulling up and down on the shaft or will head stimulation be enough?
You do not. Just run your tongue around that head like you are trying to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop and your guy will be loving it.
Your only challenge will be to make sure no teeth make contact. Though as you get more experienced and creative you can use teeth as well.