I literally just got fucking scolded and told I have some “accountability for my behavior” or whatever because I replied to someone who was insulting me, defaming my character, and lying about me with “Fuck you, you lying piece of shit.” This isn’t the first time this has happened, and it’s always in these anarchist/“radical” mutual aid groups. I was flabbergasted. It was like I was on some other planet.

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    I have let to encounter any local anarchist, ML, DSA, etc group which wasn’t led by like 3 of the most vile clout and Twitter-obsessed assholes with zero social skills.

    The trots here in Ireland are really annoying (and have sex pest problems) but at least you can join a local group and its not being used by someone who wants to use it just to hold power over people.

    Local trans groups are also like this but they’re also usually led by trans anarchists who want to have power over people and yell at people.

    its always “erm you SLIGHTLY disagreed with Sarah. YOU NOW NEED TO FUCKING DO A PUBLIC HUMILIATION RITUAL TO THE GROUP AND APOLOGIZE ABOUT HOW EVIL AND BAD YOU ARE OR YOU’RE KICKED OUT!”

    Its like they want to run a cult not anything useful

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        “Because elites are informal does not mean they are invisible. At any small group meeting anyone with a sharp eye and an acute ear can tell who is influencing whom. The members of a friendship group will relate more to each other than to other people. They listen more attentively, and interrupt less; they repeat each other’s points and give in amiably; they tend to ignore or grapple with the “outs” whose approval is not necessary for making a decision.”

        Fun fact there are like three different trans socials in dublin. One is irrelevant. One sucks, and the other is for trans fems.

        The one for trans fems was TAKEN OVER BY A FUCKING POLYCULE AT SOME POINT. SO if you went it would be super fucking awkward to try to socialize because a fucking polycule would be 80% of the people there and if they didn’t find you hot or interesting enough to join the polycule they wouldn’t talk to you.

        So now the transfer social has a representation with local transfems (who aren’t babytrans) of just being a big weird anarchist polycule. IDK if its still like that or if it still goes on. THe trans rights non profit shit down its building where it was hosted.

        But this article is reminding me how these anarchist “no organizer” shit always ends up being toxic.

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              The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

              نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

              volcel-police

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          Reminds me of our student movement here too.

          They started out as anti-political essentially anarchist with some lib talking points about “democracy and a state that respects the law”. To turning to electoralism and shit.

          Only the be infiltrated by NGO’s that are both lib and right wing lmao. The whole thing is essentially over now. People were hyping this up mind you to be a revolution.

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      I will also say the big difference I’ve noticed between joining local ML/maoist groups and anarchist groups is that ML groups are usually mostly men who watch the deprogram and hasan and use too much reddit have never read theory. Anarrchist groups will contain more women, who do not watch hasan or the deprogram, but they also don’t read theory.

      Trots usually do read theory, but its literally only ever trot theory and nothing else, and every trot group Ive seen has been very equal in gender %.

      IDK what this means

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        IDK what this means

        Speaking for the UK, the ML groups are almost all dudes because they’re sexist terf wankers. The only women in them are terfs, a good portion of them probably fed plants or infiltrators.

        All the women with pro-lgbt social views (which is near 100% of women left of liberal) find this a dealbreaker.

        Can’t speak for elsewhere in the world but sexism is probably holding back women organisers in orgs and it’s charismatic visible organising women that tend to attract more women if there are no other dealbreakers.

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          I wrote a paper once how second wave feminism in the UK only really started because men in all the uk maoist organizations literally couldn’t stop themselves from hating women

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            I suspect this has been inherited in the left from Men’s Working Clubs and the pre-Thatcher left being all-male dirty industry like mining and ship building. The culture transitioned to many of the surviving unions instead and still stinks up the hard-left to this day.

            It ironically might be better today if MORE of the left had been destroyed back then so that the culture didn’t survive.

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        I will also say the big difference I’ve noticed between joining local ML/maoist groups and anarchist groups is that ML groups are usually mostly men who watch the deprogram and hasan and use too much reddit

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      Local trans groups are also like this

      Some trans groups are looking to fight people over things so hard that they attack other trans people for literally no reason over incredibly minor mistakes of language with no regard whatsoever for tone or intent or international cultural differences in language use. It’s led to so many people I know having horrendous experiences when joining some groups and getting attacked. It’s really not good.

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        And then a few months or years later the whole thing collapses in dramatic fashion. Members scatter, sometimes traumatized. It sucks. I’m not part of any trans groups anymore. Also I’m not baby trans anymore, so that could be a factor too.