• Lussy [he/him, des/pair]@hexbear.netEnglish
            31·
            2 months ago

            Ok, sorry, I don’t keep tabs on people’s comment history. Also, I apologize if you felt misgendered, I didn’t even see your pronouns and I’ve never recognized this term as gender specific.

            I have literally gotten into fights over the past several weeks over racism. I am on a hair trigger. I still find this sort of discussion of racism based on flimsy class characteristizations distasteful.

            I apologize for being a dick and being aggressive. I’m sorry.

            • puppygirlpets [pup/pup's, she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
              10·
              2 months ago

              this is completely fucking inadequate
              the fuck you mean “flimsy class characterizations”? you came at me because i correctly pointed out that ignoring class is dangerous then completely minimized and dismissed the actual fucking oppression i face as “a brit” in your words ignoring that i’m fucking Black in a white supremacist country
              “apology” not accepted, go fuck yourself

              • Lussy [he/him, des/pair]@hexbear.netEnglish
                11·
                2 months ago

                I think we should stop this. This argument and most of the missteps in discussion came from my end. Looking back, you didn’t really say much and I exploded at you.

    • CARCOSA [mirror/your pronouns]@hexbear.netEnglish
      4·
      2 months ago

      As a result of the past few community discussions we have ceased using that as a recognized term. Please consult the code of conduct, for more information.

      Here is the relevant section:

      Debate & Sectarianism

      We don’t expect every user to be perfect on every issue, but users should work to meet these community guidelines.

      Do not demean or harass others for caring about a topic or details of a topic more than you do.
Sectarianism is not tolerated.
Constructive engagement is more important than "dunking".
Users are allowed to ask good faith questions, however there is little tolerance for debate against the community statements.
Users must try and take the most charitable interpretation of fellow users.
Users unwilling to change their minds or accept the community statements will face moderator action.
Users unwilling to engage others in good faith or who are constantly overly antagonistic will be subject to moderator action.