I’m craving a sugar mommy TwT

it implies I pretend to be a woman to trick people, really gross.

Best argument I’ve heard as to why it’s a slur. Honestly thank you.

Huh… Some friends have been calling me tranny granny for a while now…

Wait tr*nny is a slur…? Why?

Probably a hot take but I disagree, it’s the same issue as the whole “trap is a slur” situation that I also disagree with.

The issue is that, if the word is used against a trans woman without bottom surgery, it’s a term that might not fit or be appropriate. With trap, it’s just straight up misgendering, but it might fit someone who still identifies as male. With futa, (if I underatand your point) it might carry a lot of sexual meaning with it which could be inappropriate.

It’s an issue with “who uses the word to describe who”, and therefore isn’t in my eyes a slur.

Edit: clarification

Date idea: we board the ICE to Köln Hbf and play with our Nintendo 3DS together for the entire ride 👉👈🥺

now paint the rest of the body too for full femininity

and she’s in bed next to me braless and smoking

Why does something so fukken hot as smoking have to be so incredibly unhealthy (ಥ﹏ಥ)

I… Having someone lay down on your tiddies hurts even if you don’t have much (AA cup talking from experience here)…

Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)…

Yeah I meant Aromantic

I must confess, I’m… Well I’m in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it’s an open relationship but I’m not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it’s the fucking best feeling ever!<

Edit: spelling

I’m actually generally scared of the fact that the entire world seems to wander more into right-wing conservatism…

My main hope is that parties like the AfD, the FPÖ (right-wing extremist party that won the election in Austria), Trump, … will see things like gender identity as more of a side issue in the world and not doing anything, neither good nor bad because they have “better” things to do. I have no clue how gender identity even became a political issue in the first place but it really needs to stop

Autocorrect strikes again ;w;

Well I tried but I wasn’t good at it at all… I wish there where more dom trams girls ;-;

I am cute and quirky precisely because I am medicated (tho it should stop in at most an hour for today… I’m scared, I’ve cried enough this week already)

God I love this community so much. Exactly as I said in my earlier comment: “The moderation here is out of love for the community.” And I’m so happy that that is the case.

Seriously, thank you for being a great moderator ;w;

Particularly in smaller communities like this entire Lemmy instance, it is much harder for toxicity to develop. Pretty much everyone knows that this community is about posting “lmao i’m lonely and/or horny” memes and it’s easy for new people understand that too (like it was for me).

Why does reddit have so much toxicity though? The issue is that most mods only really care about a community just being in an acceptable state. What they don’t do is actually make the community into a place where you want to spend more time on. They’re doing the bare minimum to moderate as many communities as possible so that they can get notoriety and moderate bigger subreddits because bigger subs (or reddit themselves) can pay those moderators.

Reddit even actively encourages this behaviour, not only by paying those mods but also with some decisions on how subreddit management works (not going into details because you could find my reddit username with that).

The moderation here is out of love for the community. I know very well that the even worst communities can be made into a cozy space with good moderation but if there’s no love for the community then there’s no reason for it (which creates a downwards spiral because the more toxicity, the less love for a sub, and the less love, the less proper moderation).

For context: I was a moderator for a pretty big subreddit and am the only reason why the sub still exists to this day (even if it turned to shit again after my departure)

All of that being said tho:

This image is just a taste of what’s out there that can be toxic

Please tell me why this is toxic, I don’t think I understand ;-;

470 hours of playtime and still missing achievements?

True but it’s not only blood. Source 1 says it’s 70-80ml of fluids, 35-40ml of which is blood.

Regardless, as someone who has an almost obsessive fascination with our beautiful red fluid, the idea of someone being squeamish about blood is wild to me

amount of blood per period: https://www.menstrual-matters.com/bloodloss/ (35 - 40ml, i took the higher estimate, sources for the values at the bottom)

amount of periods in total: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2244694/ (451.3, rounded down to 450)

40ml * 450 = 18000ml = 18l

I can’t find the original numbers for average blood content in a human but the general consensus seems to be that it’s between 4.5 and 5.5. It doesn’t really matter though since, even if we say that you’d sacrifice 4 people with only 4.5l of blood, you’d still reach your desired 18l of sacrificial blood.