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  • Based on what you wrote, sounds to me like she wants out.

    I think that a healthy long term relationship will require some compromise from both partners. Over the course of a lifetime there will be things that two people don’t agree on, sometimes very strongly. Being able to talk through those issues and work out an appropriate compromise is crucial to the longevity of the relationship.

    If she’s insistant that the shorts of issues you’ve described are deal breakers for her I think there are a few possible reasons:

    • She wants out of the relationship and is using these issues as an excuse
    • she’s not really ready for a longterm, serious relationship
    • The issues are more serious than you’ve described and she’s not explaining her complaints in a way that makes clear to you what is really wrong