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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • It will get better. Don’t run away from the pain, feel it. Don’t give yourself a deadline, just allow yourself to feel shitty, and change will come on its own, even if it takes years.

    I have been in many relationships with people that are ugly according to conventional beauty standards, and for me the deciding factor about attractiveness was not the genetics, but how people treat their body and how they feel for it.

    Fat people often can’t get slim from sport, but man, cuddling a fat body that is strong and healthy and loved by its owner is so much more attractive. Just do whatever sport is fun for you, boxing, cycling, swimming, whatever. Have fun and break into sweats and eat well, get those proteins, build those muscles.

    I promise it gets better and you can absolutely feel like a completely new person, not just because of the sport, but because of how your psyche develops on its own if you don’t run away from the pain.