I don’t consume much porn, but in the videos I’ve seen I’ve noticed that it’s very common for women to lick their hands and masturbate and I guess it makes more sense than if a man does it, but I would like to know if I’m the only one who thinks that’s weird?

  • aguyinheat@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 months ago

    i can’t speak for all vulva’d people, but… i feel like that’s mostly a porn thing.

    the amount of times i licked my hand before masturbating: once, to see if it was good. it wasn’t (and i find it kind of gross. no offense to ppl who are into it tho). and i masturbate a lot

    pre-transition, getting it wet wasn’t even that hard. why would i use spit for that lmao. i mean some people might have that issue, right, but i’d still rather just use lube if that were the case

    i think it’s just supposed to be hot for whatever reason

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      4 months ago

      That’s something I don’t really understand, I mean, why lubricate if the vagina itself is wet, right? My apologies if it sounds stupid or ignorant.

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        4 months ago

        Vagina may not always be wet enough. Not all women produce enough lube, even when much aroused. It essentially boils down to physiology.