• LeonenTheDK@lemmy.ca
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    5 hours ago

    What’s with the boomer ellipsis? It’s so consistent among the older folks I see. I don’t understand why every sentence needs to be trailing off.

    Good for gramps though! Power to him.

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      10 minutes ago

      The boomer ellipsis drives me nuts. It gives me a very ominous feeling, like something is being left unsaid that I’m supposed to extrapolate. The only time I use an ellipsis in text is when I want to indicate that the thought is incomplete.

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      2 hours ago

      Yeesh, this is boomer stuff? I’m an elder millennial and use them all the time. It’s like a forced pause or an uhm, so reading something reads more like speech.

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      4 hours ago

      My dad is genX and uses it the same way. I have explained it to him multiple times that it’s like sighing at someone.

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      2 hours ago

      Around here, the same kind of demographic often replaces the ellipsis with ‘,’. It’s both mind-boggling and fascinating, raising so many questions that I’m neither mentally prepared nor qualified to ponder.

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        2 hours ago

        I think that’s just a common typo. The difference between '. ’ and ', ’ is hard to spot unless you have good eyesight, and they’re close together on the keyboard

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      4 hours ago

      I find that I slip into the same habit sometimes – specifically, when I’m typing something where perfect grammar will come off as overly formal, but I’m stressing a bit over what level of informality is appropriate. It taxes the frontal lobes, which means that my thoughts are disjointed in a way that ellipses just make sense with. I think it’s so widespread among older people because when they were first introduced to instant messaging, they weren’t sure how they would come off, and then it became a habit. But that’s just me guessing.

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      5 hours ago

      I used to have a boss like that, he’d toss in an ellipsis at the most inappropriate locations.

      It made all his emails appear sarcastic. Leave it to a guy who focused primarily on decorum instead of substance to send an email like

      “Good job…”

      and not know how that reads.

    • Paradachshund@lemmy.today
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      4 hours ago

      My dad does this so much and I asked him about it once. He said he thinks it makes everything sound very chill and low pressure. I think it makes everything sound passive aggressive, or like it’s a loaded statement🤦‍♂️