• BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.worldOP
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    7 hours ago

    So you cheat on your wife and force young women to self injure? That’s not really very nice at all.

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      4 hours ago

      I agree with your comment, but he’s here to give you what you wanted: scary and unsettling. This is the dude who understood the assignment.

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        2 hours ago

        No, he isn’t. That’s not scary at all, just loser behavior he wanted to get off his chest.

        Stop cheating on your wife, loser. I must assume that was the abuse he was after by confessing it.

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        4 hours ago

        That’s fine, but cheating on your wife isn’t nice and I’m going to say so, and neither is abusing much younger women. Young women have been murdered in violent BDSM relationships. It’s honestly toxic in my opinion. Which I know isn’t popular, but also don’t groom young women and cheat on your wife.

        • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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          4 hours ago

          And after what happened with Neil Gaiman, I have to wonder how consensual such situations like this are. In fact, I originally thought this was a Neil Gaiman reference, but he’s 64.

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            4 hours ago

            I would be more hopeful to believe it was consensual was except they bragged their wife doesn’t know. I’ve been in enough situations through chats to learn people like this exist and managed to abuse others—even virtually. There can be healthy relationships in BDSM, but the community often attracts predators for a reason.

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              2 hours ago

              And the people who are only online and not telling their spouse are significantly more likely to be predators. I’m not saying irl communities don’t have predators, they absolutely do, I’ve been abused by someone I met through one, but being part of irl communities means that if you get reported as an abuser (and the community comes to the conclusion that the report is valid) you can’t just change your username and show up to the same events and spaces

            • Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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              3 hours ago

              Right, it was the much younger women and not telling his wife parts that made me a little concerned about how consensual the relationships are.

        • a Kendrick fan@lemmy.ml
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          4 hours ago

          but cheating on your wife isn’t nice

          i understand the sentimental writeup but there was no requirement to be nice, only scaring and unsettling facts