• ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
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    There’s some actual porn, where that happens, but it’s a real rarity. Even rarer, than the urethral penetration, which is already rare due to the small hole need to be expanded greatly, and likely will cause incontinence, infections, etc.

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    It may not be realistic, but wouldn’t it be cooler if it did?

    Like, seriously, nobody question when a character breaks physics when they flash step, shoot laser beams, or fly solely by their willpower.

    Why should porn be subjected to realism more than non porn?

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      That’s what I like about hentai. You don’t need to keep arbitrary standards like realism. If I want realism, I watch actual porn.

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    Finally a place to ask!

    Can someone explain what the hell is going on with the liljunex’s body? She does extreme dildos of absolutely wild proportions and there is a specific “pop” moment where she can get significant new depth.

    It seems to defy this meme. It’s wild.

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      Not into the cervix, but around it. Essentially stretching out the vaginal cavity to allow for more stuff to go in.

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    Point of order: The penis CAN enter the cervix in women who have already given birth, and sometimes they can do tricks with it

    That said, actually pushing up against the cervix unprepared for it ranges from discomfort to fucking painful for nearly all women

    Source: WOAH MOMMA!

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      19 hours ago

      I mean this in the least horny way possible, but I’m going to need an actual source for that.

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        Nearly every website will tell you that it is impossible, that the cervical entry is the size of a thumb.

        None of them even consider that during birth the cervix dilates significantly larger than any non-surgically altered human penis, and none of them mention the flexibility the cervix keeps after natural child birth.

        Here’s an article that cites some doctors that aren’t fooled by generalizations:

        https://www.promescent.com/blogs/learn/cervix-penetration

        The real source, the one that is useless to you unfortunately, is what that woman did to me. She told me it was going to happen, I thought I was prepared. I WAS NOT.

        Find you a woman who knows how to use her cervix and it will CHANGE YOUR LIFE

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          From your source: “Even though cervix penetration is not actually anatomically possible, cervical stimulation is, and this can be enjoyable for some women.”

          I’m actually willing to concede that cervical penetration is a theoretical possibility. Through daily sounding and dilation over a long period of time, you might be able to fit a penis. Even then, actually getting the penis through the cervix would be exceedingly difficult: The uterus isn’t fixed in a vertical position, on the contrary, it’ll usually be bent forward, backward or to the side. During sounding, it’ll usually be stabilized by a speculum at minimum. That wouldn’t be possible during intercourse, again making penile penetration of the cervix highly unlikely even if one was actively trying.

          As for the changes after childbirth, they’re not as pronounced as you seem to think. The external orifice might change from a pinpoint to a short slit, but otherwise the cervix isn’t all that different. After all, one of its functions is to be able to keep a fetus in place more than once. Actual source: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1597273/

          To sum up, no woman should be worried about their cervix being penetrated during normal intercourse, regardless of how many children they’ve had or how big their partner was. I can’t speak to what happened between you and your partner, but I guess all that matters is that you both found it enjoyable 😁

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    Yeah, definitely one of my least favourite hentai tropes. See also “fill the entire womb with sperm”.

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      It’s like hitting a wall and having the woman say “that hurts, please be more gentle” (hitting the cervix, entering it isn’t going to happen, penises aren’t that rigid or sharp)

      I recommend against positions that maximize penetration depth with women with shallower vaginas

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        I wouldnt dare to try, but i have been told how painful pap smears can be and that many women need painkillers to endure it at all. I cant imagine how painful it would be to stretch it open. And thats also why there is such a thing as too long.

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          I’ve had my uterus inflated with saline for a specific screening ultrasound. They inserted like maybe 10cc, 5 at a time, so not a lot of volume, and obviously it was liquid. I’ve never been pregnant or anything, and I’m not sure if that would make a difference, but that was the single most painful experience of my life. And I get migraines and have major back problems.

          So the thought of not only penetrating the cervix (which is bad enough) but then having something solid enter the uterus (the logical conclusion of penetrating the cervix)? Holy gods no.

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          Everyone says they want a huge Johnson but don’t consider how much of a mood killer “ouch! You’re hurting my cervix” every time you fuck can be